Saturday 24 September 2011

SECOND 5S's.......SIDE/STOMACH POSITION

SIDE /STOMACH POSITION

The idea here is to hold your baby in the side lying or face-down position. Because a baby placed on his or her back may experience the sensation of falling, holding them in either of these positions can help them to feel more secure. you might be scared to hold them in such way but believe me it really works....!!!!after position them pat slowly their bumps or at the back...sure lentok punyer.....

5 Steps to Calming a Cranky Baby

SIDE/STOMACH POSTION


calming a crying baby

REVERSE BREAST FEEDING POSITION


FOOTBALL HOLD POSITION 
(POSITION I LIKE MOST)

THE FIRST 5S's......SWADDLING

Swaddling

It is the cornerstone of calming to keeps baby from spiraling out of control and helping baby pay attention to what we are doing to calm him.
Besides, wrapping our baby very snugly in a blanket, to recreate the warm and secure feeling of the mother’s womb. The snugger, the better! Swaddling our baby too loosely can result in our baby breaking free of the swaddle, or even just further irritating them. Because newborns tend to unconsciously jerk and flail their arms and legs around, the swaddle allows the baby to remain calm and aids them in falling asleep and staying asleep.
How to swaddle a baby????
- recommended technique called DUDU wrap.
Doing the DUDU....
- to help us remember the DUDU technique, try singing a little song as we do it:
DOWN...tuck...snug
UP....tuck...snug
DOWN....a smidge...hold
UP....across...snug.
# REMEMBER !!!!!
- avoid overheating baby
- avoid loose blankets - swaddling needs to be snug
- do not let the blanket touch the baby's neck or cheek
- swaddle with the baby's arms tightly down their sides is the way to go (except for PREEMIES)

HOW TO SWADDLE BABY?????

first thing you need a square flat blanket...not too thin and not too thick...ngam ngam hoo...
you will want to lay the blanket out completely flat to begin with. do it on flat large surface...and never leave your baby unattended on a taller surface because they could roll off.
How to Swaddle a Baby

Then flip down the corner to make an area for baby's head. this corner can be flipped inwards  to prevent it from flapping around while you're holding the baby or it can be flipped outward and used to semi-cover the back of the baby's head.

How to Swaddle a Baby

Lay the baby down with the back of their head centered on the flipped corner. The top of the blanket should be at the level of the top of baby's shoulder unless you intend to cover their heads.





Picture No:3
Down. Just as swaddling is the cornerstone of calming, this first DOWN is the cornerstone of swaddling. It must be done well or the wrap will unravel. Hold your baby’s right arm straight against his side, grab the blanket three to four inches from his right shoulder, and pull it very snugly down and across his body. (The blanket should look like half of a V-neck sweater.)
Tuck . Keeping the blanket taut, finish pulling it all the way down and tuck it under his left buttocks and lower back. This anchors the wrap.
Snug . While firmly holding the blanket against his left hip (with your left hand), grab the top edge of the blanket next to his unwrapped left shoulder and tug it very,very snug. Pull the blanket until there is absolutely no slack
around your baby’s right arm and the fabric is stretched to the max.
After this first “DOWN…t u c k … s n u g,” the baby’s right arm should be held so securely against his side that he can’t bend his arm up, even if you let go of the blanket. Don’t be surprised or lose confidence if your baby suddenly cries louder when you pull the blanket tight. You’re not hurting him!


Picture No:4
Up. Now, straighten his left arm against his side and bring the bottom corner straight up to cover the arm. The bottom blanket point should reach up and over his left shoulder. It’s okay if his legs are bent; that’s how babies are
positioned in the womb. But, be sure his arms are s t r a i g h t.If they’re bent, he’ll get out of the wrap as fast as you can say,“Oops, he did it again!” And, he’ll cry even more.
Tuck.Tuck this corner tightly under his whole left arm with your right hand. Put your left hand on his straight left arm so it’s pressed against his body.
Snug. While your left hand still holds his left arm down,use your right hand to grab the blanket three inches from his left shoulder and s n u g it with a 
continuous pull (stretch it as much as possible). This removes any slack next to his right arm.

Picture No:5
Down. Still holding the blanket three inches from his left shoulder, pull the blanket taut and d o w n,but only a smidgen.
This DOWN should bring only a smidgen of fabric over his left shoulder to his upper chest, like the second half of the V-neck sweater. (A mistake parents often make with the DUDU wrap is to bring this down fold all the way to their baby’s feet…remember, it’s just a smidgen.) 
Hold. Using your left hand, hold that small fold of blanket pressed against his breastbone, like you are holding down a ribbon while making a bow.

Picture No:6
-Up. As your left hand holds that fold, grab the last free blanket corner with your right hand and pull it firmly,straight out to your right. This will get every last bit of stretch and slack out of the wrap you’ve done so far. And, without
releasing the tension, lift that corner in one smooth motion,up and …
Across. Bring it tightly a c r o s s his waist and wrap it around
his body like a belt. The belt should go right over his forearms, holding them snugly down against his sides.
Snug. The finishing touch of the DUDU wrap is to snug
the “belt” by giving it one last tight pull to remove any slack.
Then tuck the end into the blanket as shown in the diagram.
This last tight snug and tuck keeps the whole swaddle
from popping open.

SWADDLING WORRIES !!!!!!!!!

  • swaddling is old - fashioned - yes but it really works!
  • babbies will be uncomfortable with their arms tightly down their sides - arms-down position is NOT uncomfortable in fact, babies sleep longer when bundled this way
  • babies will get spoiled or dependent - not so. since baby was :wrapped up" 24 hours a day when inside the womb. Once he is 4 months old, he will no longer need to be wrapped
  • wrapping makes baby feel trapped - not true. newborns love being confined, and when they're feeling out of control, they need help to restrain their arms and legs.
  • tight bundling might interfere with baby's ability to learn about the world -  of course baby needs his hands unwrapped sometimes so he can practice using them. but when he is crying, you need to calm him down by wrapping him. In fact, he will pay better attention when his arms are not constantly in motion.


your baby will look like this after you swaddle him.....



so...we finish with swaddling...next is side /stomach position...






THE CALMING REFLEX.....


Reflexes are involuntary reactions our bodies make towards certain stimuli. For instance, during routine physical examinations, doctor may check our knee jerk reflex; If she hits exactly the right part of our knee with her patella hammer, our leg should jerk involuntarily.
In the same way, the so-called calming reflex is a baby’s response to certain stimuli. Dr. Karp believes that this reflex is present in babies in utero, and disappears somewhere around 4-5 months.
The reason for this reflex ? 
Dr. Karp says that this reflex plays a crucial role during pregnancy: Imagine if babies became upset or frantic while in the womb. They would constantly be moving around, and changing position, which of course would be not only painful and dangerous for the mother, but would mean the baby could move out of the head down position necessary for a natural birth.

THE NEW WAY TO CALM CRYING AND HELP YOUR BABY SLEEP LONGER.......DR.HARVEY KARP


Dr. Karp believes that babies, especially in their first few months of life, can experience "fourth trimester" issues. Babies can have a difficult time getting used to the huge amount of stimuli present in life outside of Mom's body. Their reaction to all of this is to cry and cry.

The Happiest Baby On The Block method formulated by Dr. Harvey Karp, addresses these issues by helping we learn how to effectively recreate the environment of the womb, outside of Mom's body. Once you have learned the steps, you will be able to alleviate some, if not all, of your baby's colic symptoms.

test4Dr. Harvey Karp


According to DR.Harvey there are 4 principles for soothing baby:
  • The missing 4th trimester
  • The calming reflex
  • The 5 S's
  • The cuddle cure

                                  What is the missing 4th trimester?


Baby horses can walk and even run on their very first day of life. They are truly ready to be born when they leave their mother's womb. By comparison, our newborns are more like fetuses than infants. They have irregular breathing, tremors…and even need help to burp. It is only after 2-3 months that they smile, coo and finally seem ready to be here.
Our babies don't have big strong bodies, like horses, but they do have big brains. In fact, they are so big, at 9 months giving birth is an almost impossible squeeze. A dilated cervix is 10 centimeters in diameter (31.4 cm circumference) while a newborn's head has a circumference of 34-35 cm. Our big-brained babies have to come out after 9 months gestation; however, in many ways, they could really use a few more months of the stimulation of the uterus.
In the womb, fetuses are constantly massaged by the muscular walls of the uterus, frequently jiggled and 24/7 they are surrounded by the crash of blood whooshing through the placental arteries (a noise that is louder than a vacuum cleaner!).
Most parents around the world intuitively mimic the rocking, holding and shushing of the uterus, but in our culture, we are mistakenly taught to whisper and tiptoe around our babies, believing that they need a quiet and still environment. Nothing could be further from the truth! Rather than being over-stimulated, most of our babies are seriously under-stimulated.
Recreating the sensory milieu of the womb is so important for newborns, not because they are nostalgic for the "good life" they had inside, but because it actually triggers an important, but previously unappreciated neonatal reflex, called the calming reflex.



Conclusion : What is it like inside the womb?

  • baby packed tight into a fetal position with the warm wall of uterus
  • rocked and jiggled for much of the day
  • surrounded by a constant shushing sound slightly louder than a vacuum cleaner 


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TURNING TEARS INTO SMILE :)

Taraaa.....after joined the workshop :turning tears into smile" i would like to share some tips for new moms out there especially for my fellow frenz...for those new moms with baby 3-4months old maybe it wont work out like the newborn coz this step or technique need to be implement or practise since newborn then the successfull rate higher...but dun worry u still can learn it...it's simple as A B C...
 

Why do babies CRY?????


Learn the Crying Code! Prevent Shaken Baby Syndrome

As we know babies cry to communicate their needs:
- of course the main prob is hunger
- wet pampers
- heat/cold/discomfort
- insecurity
- fatigue (especially when u bring them out to shopping mall...hehehe)
- boredom
- pain
- colic (abdo discomfort)

infant crying or irritability usually happens in the first 3 months...tengik ko iban..peaks at 6weeks and abate by 12 to 16 weeks..nyau besai nyau nemu gik ga tudah...

excessive crying is concentrated in the late afternoon and evening hours...akai dai nyau pedis pending ninga...and these crying bouts are:
- prolonged (can lasts for 3-4hours)
- unsoothable, even by feeding or jiggle
- and the most moms cant stand it is unrelated to events in the environment, including soothing attempts by parents...aki ini ibuk ayak ngau meh ngaum ia...akai parai kitai empu anak tengik bakanya...hahahaha




did u notice when crying, these babies often display:
- clenched fists
- legs flexed over abdomen
- arching back
- flushing
- a hard distended abdomen
- regurgitation
- passing of gas (kentut ia nti dah kuat nyabak...)
- grimacing face

when the babies keep on crying it will bring impact to them..such as:
@ feeding problems - that's why if u notice if baby tengik...:-) they become more skinny than other baby....remember what i said earlier they are unsoothable even by feeding....normal baby usually 3 hourly feeding but for fussy baby will become less...because when they are tired they tense to sleep more, feeding less....
@ constant crying causes fatigue and stress in parents - post natal blue/psychosis will happen among post natal especially during confinement
@ parents will get frustrated and impatient - this will lead to SBS or shaken baby syndrome...
- 20 to 30 babies referred to GH every year and 80% perpetrators in Malaysia are MALE
- most terrible about 1 in 4 shaken babies die !!!!!
- 15% of these deaths are due to battering or shaking..


Above is how SBS can cause death...same as the mechanism of whisplash injury in adults that occur during accident ...if you give up or you think you can't handle the baby please pass them to somebody else...don't ever do this at home...raising up child is stressful but don't make it as a reason....NO BABY HAS DIED FROM CRYING.....


Here i would like to share on how you can handle this fussy babies.........