TURNING TEARS INTO SMILE :)

Taraaa.....after joined the workshop :turning tears into smile" i would like to share some tips for new moms out there especially for my fellow frenz...for those new moms with baby 3-4months old maybe it wont work out like the newborn coz this step or technique need to be implement or practise since newborn then the successfull rate higher...but dun worry u still can learn it...it's simple as A B C...

 

Why do babies CRY?????

As we know babies cry to communicate their needs:
- of course the main prob is hunger
- wet pampers
- heat/cold/discomfort
- insecurity
- fatigue (especially when u bring them out to shopping mall...hehehe)
- boredom
- pain
- colic (abdo discomfort)

infant crying or irritability usually happens in the first 3 months...tengik ko iban..peaks at 6weeks and abate by 12 to 16 weeks..nyau besai nyau nemu gik ga tudah...

excessive crying is concentrated in the late afternoon and evening hours...akai dai nyau pedis pending ninga...and these crying bouts are:
- prolonged (can lasts for 3-4hours)
- unsoothable, even by feeding or jiggle
- and the most moms cant stand it is unrelated to events in the environment, including soothing attempts by parents...aki ini ibuk ayak ngau meh ngaum ia...akai parai kitai empu anak tengik bakanya...hahahaha

did u notice when crying, these babies often display:

- clenched fists

- legs flexed over abdomen

- arching back

- flushing

- a hard distended abdomen

- regurgitation

- passing of gas (kentut ia nti dah kuat nyabak...)

- grimacing face

when the babies keep on crying it will bring impact to them..such as:

@ feeding problems - that's why if u notice if baby tengik...:-) they become more skinny than other baby....remember what i said earlier they are unsoothable even by feeding....normal baby usually 3 hourly feeding but for fussy baby will become less...because when they are tired they tense to sleep more, feeding less....

@ constant crying causes fatigue and stress in parents - post natal blue/psychosis will happen among post natal especially during confinement

@ parents will get frustrated and impatient - this will lead to SBS or shaken baby syndrome...

- 20 to 30 babies referred to GH every year and 80% perpetrators in Malaysia are MALE

- most terrible about 1 in 4 shaken babies die !!!!!

- 15% of these deaths are due to battering or shaking..

Above is how SBS can cause death...same as the mechanism of whisplash injury in adults that occur during accident ...if you give up or you think you can't handle the baby please pass them to somebody else...don't ever do this at home...raising up child is stressful but don't make it as a reason....NO BABY HAS DIED FROM CRYING.....

Here i would like to share on how you can handle this fussy babies.........